回顾一下我的博士经历

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发信人: Sp2018 (任盈盈), 信区: Faculty
标  题: 回顾一下我的博士经历
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 27 12:25:37 2019, 美东)

1）首先，昨天，我发现了一份信： 2009年7月5日，我给我博士老板发了这样一封信：
XXX wrote:
> Jon,
> I don't want this phd title to humiliate me, my husband, and my next
generation. I want to be a mom only.
> See you no more.
> Take care
> XXX.
> Thanks

所以,是我自己quit PhD的。我老公说，我老板报警。我是9号被警察拦下车，发现我没
有驾照，我被送到医院的。从此我的人生轨迹改变了。

2）2009年7月17日，我给我在密西根的教母写了这样的信。

"I was arrested by the policemen on July 9th, and stayed at the ED room of
Duke hospital for about 5 days. I was discharged yesterday. Life treats me
well. I am happy. I miss my old grandma and my old friend-niuniu at shanghai
. So we decide this short travel. My son has to return for school in
September".

我是如此的思念亲人，希望有人能支持我。 看我今天给我的员工的信。

3）今天早上给我公司员工发的信。
"I finally realized that I had a mindset to look for justice, to get the
help. I should tell myself 10 years ago:  " xx , move on!!! Focus on what
you want today and tomorrow. Those bad peoples will be punished by their own
behavior. That is none of your business. Respect the people around you now.
Don't lose them again! "

求神祝福我的公司，祝福我的孩子，祝福我在中国的亲人。

为什么我曾经老是自卑自己没有拿到博士学位？ 因为我想回国，而回国必须有学位。
。。
为什么我总是自怜自艾？ 因为我没有机会。 上天如果再给我一次机会，我一定会用命
去努力，去奋斗。。。

现在这个机会终于来了！ 我要去卖饺子。。。
哈哈哈。。



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Some men are fathers, others are dicks.
January 12, 2019

※ 修改:・Sp2018 於 Jun 27 12:26:49 2019 修改本文・[FROM: 98.]